2017 Update & A Thwack in the Night

We're revisiting our 2017 goals and intentions and checking in on how they're going while sipping on a stormy cocktail.
Orange-banana-strawberry juice
Cream of coconut
Ginger beer
Dark rum
            Shake juice and cream of coconut in a cocktail shaker. Pour over ice. 
            Top with ginger beer.
            Float a shot of dark rum on the top
Stuff we mentioned:
GoGo Girl red nail polish from Revlon (we found it at Walgreens)
The classic GND episode where we reveal what's in our purses and how different we really are when it comes to makeup.

Trader Joe's Faves & Judgy Swans

Not only are we sipping on this yummy margarita. We're munching away on all of our Trader Joe's favorites while we chat about all things TJ's! 
TJ Spicy Marg
makes 2
2 oz Trader Joe's jalapeno limeade
1 oz triple sec
4 oz. tequila
2 Trader Joe's hot and sweet jalapeño slices, for garnish
Fill two glasses with ice. Divide limeade, triple sec, and tequila between glasses. Stir and garnish each with a jalapeño slice.
We tasted:
  • Reduced Guilt Guacamole
  • Double Roasted Salsa
  • Popcorn with Herbs and Spices
  • Pub Cheese with Horseradish
  • Caramel and Cheddar Popcorn
  • Cocoa Glazed Roasted Almonds
  • Organic Frosted Toaster Pastries - Cherry Pomegranate
  • Cinnamon Schoolbook Cookies
  • steamed lentils
  • pizza sauce
  • pizza dough
  • High protein tofu
  • Unexpected Cheddar
  • cheese section
  • turkey summer sausage
  • whole milk vanilla greek yogurt
  • mango/peach yogurt


  • hot and sweet jalapenos
  • bread n’ Butter pickle slices
  • creamy tomato basil spaghetti sauce
  • yellow curry sauce + coconut cream = the best homemade curry!
  • Popcorn with herbs and spices
  • Hawaiian BBQ potato chips
  • corn chips (SO much better than Fritos!)
  • Double roasted salsa
  • ketchup
  • cookie butter
  • beer bread box mix
  • cornbread mix
  • coconut cranberry granola
  • almond butter granola
  • jarred pizza sauce
  • ginger beer
  • coconut cold brew coffee


  • Triple ginger snaps
  • dark chocolate peanut butter cups
  • the gourmet jelly beans (in large bag at Easter)


  • meatless meatballs
  • quinoa cowboy burger
  • sweet potato fries
  • Indian food meals
  • naan
  • orange chicken
  • vegetable fried rice
  • sweet potato gnocchi
  • carmelized onion and feta tarts
  • mochi ice cream


  • shaving cream
  • lavender body scrub
  • coconut body butter
  • sponges
  • the dish clothes and also the dish towels (mine only recently started to carry these so not sure if they are everywhere)
  • 3 in 1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner (just don't use on kids, pretty stingy if you get in your eyes!)
  • nourishing face cream in pump bottle (no SPF), this is my night lotion
  • midsummer night's cream
  • lotion and spray sunscreen


Candy Cane Joe Joes
Candy Cane Joe Joe’s ice cream
Sipping chocolate
Triple Ginger Brew
Coconut-yellow curry with tofu + brown rice
  • Yellow curry sauce
  • 1/2 can of coconut cream
  • High Protein super firm tofu
  • veggies
  • Brown rice (from frozen)

Spaghetti and "meat"balls

  • Creamy tomato basil sauce
  • Meatless meatballs
  • Whole wheat noodles
We also mentioned:
the greeting cards
fresh flowers
We DO NOT recommend:
Kelsey - TJ brand beer
Erica - hummus, frozen stuffed mushrooms

Kelsey's Trader Joe's Haikus

Aisles and smiles are bright

Tiny coffee warms my hand

Cart – and heart – are full


First sign of Noel?

Not snow falling or sleigh bells

Candy Cane Joe Joes


Frosty, plump mochi

Powder that clings to my lips

Gooey, chewy treat

Social Media & Real Relationships

We're chatting about the intersection of social media and real life/relationships while sipping on an icy cocktail because it's hottttt!

Skip and Go Naked
  • equal parts beer and lemonade
  • 1 shot of vodka
  • serve over ice, ideally in a red solo cup


Random things we mentioned this episode...

Jenna Kutcher had some great thoughts on this episode of her Goal Digger Podcast.
People we've "met" online and become friends with:
Our paint colors:
Erica's walls are painted Gray Owl and 50% strength and Kelsey's are full strength Gray Owl. Erica had the back of her doors painted Peppercorn and Kelsey's are Kendal Charcoal.

Listener Questions & Short Shorts

We're answering a random mix of your questions about podcasting, parenthood, and summer ideas. Speaking of summer ideas, this cocktail is a great one...

Salty Grapefruit Sparkler
2 oz Grapefruit & Fleur de Sel Iconic Cocktail mixer
3 oz gin
club soda
fresh lime juice
Fill two glasses with crushed ice. To each glass add 1 ounce mixer and 1.5 ounces gin. Top with club soda and a fresh lime juice from a wedge of lime.
You asked us how Erica's new house is, and how the former neighborhood is surviving without the Ladds. You asked us some great questions about podcasting including what doing the show has taught us about ourselves, and what our plans are for the future of the podcast. You also wanted to know how we grow our mom village and how faith plays a role in our friendship. You also wanted to know some of our summer favorites, from cocktails to candles to kid activities. 

Book Club 9: A Piece of the World

Read along and join us for the bookclub episode dedicated to discussing A Piece of the World, by Christina Baker Kline.

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We're sipping on a Whiskey Clementine and digging in to this novel. We share our likes, dislikes, favorite parts, and profound insights from the book based on Andrew Wyeth's famous painting, Christina's World.

If you loved this book, we had some other recommendations which are similar in terms of the "books about art" theme...

Quality Time With Kids & Local Water Deputy

A few housekeeping items...

**Time to announce our reading pick for our Spring book club episode. We are reading A Piece of the World by Christina Baker Kline. That episode will air May 24th, so grab your copy and read along with us!**

**Don't forget our Neighborly Advice classes on Minimalism for Real People and High Fives to Your Future Self are still available! Tons of good stuff on simplifying and enjoying life a bit more packed into these two classes.**



This episode is about spending quality time with our kids. We’ll chat about how we define quality time, what it looks like in our families, how we ensure that it happens, or what gets in the way when it's not happening.

Sipping on...

Grapefruit Pineapple Fizz

3 oz Captain Morgan spiced rum
2 oz pineapple simple syrup
Q grapefruit soda
Fresh lime juice 
Fill two glasses with crushed ice. Divide rum and pineapple simple syrup between glasses. Top with grapefruit soda and a squeeze of fresh lime juice. Stir and sip.
Current obsessions...
Kelsey is obsessed with reading lately and really enjoyed A Gentleman in Moscow and The Dry
Erica loves her new Mossimo Striped knit t-shirt dress from Target for a summer basic.

Dating Your Husband & Tiny Neighbors Shouting

This episode is all about how we're finding time to date those lovely Mr.'s of ours. We talk about why dates in marriage are important to us, what a typical date looks like currently, and sharing about our worst and best dates as married couples. 


Also it's both the Whartons and the Ladds anniversaries this month, so cheers with this southwest inspired cocktail...

    The Gila Monster

  • 1.5 oz Tequila
  • 1 oz St. Germain 
  • 3 oz Fresca
  • splash of orange juice
  • splash of prickly pear flavoring
  • fresh jalapeno slices for garnish

Kelsey is currently obsessed with this hose sprayer attachment and Erica's entire family is obsessed with Moana.

In neighborhood news, Kelsey made a delicious Irish soda bread to share over the back wall and tiny neighbors shouting back and forth to each other over the wall is the best!

Movies & Rogue Drones

Pop the popcorn and dim the lights, because this episode is all about movies! (Have we really never dedicated an entire episode to this topic. For shame.) We're sipping a St. Patty's Day inspired cocktail and dishing about the silver screen.

Irish Buck
makes one cocktail
Fill glass with ice. Add 2 oz Irish whiskey (used used Paddy), 1 tablespoon fresh lime juice and 3 oz ginger beer. Stir and garnish with a lime wedge.
Movies from Kelsey's childhood:
The Gnome Mobile
Bedknobs and Broomsticks
Movies from Erica's childhood:
Honey I Blew Up the Baby
Sister Act
Sleeping Beauty
The Little Mermaid
Beauty and the Beast
The Lion King
Kelsey's faves:
Harry Potter movies, A Few Good Men, Sliding Doors, classics with Carey Grant and Audrey Hepburn, Julie & Julia
Erica's faves:
The Notebook
Fried Green Tomatoes
The Family Stone
White Christmas
National Lampoon's Vacation & Christmas Vacation
We are NOT recommending:
Event Horizon
The Blair Witch Project
The Exorcist
The Ring
Donnie Darko
A few documentaries Kelsey recommends:
Mad Hot Ballroom
Winged Migration
The one Erica's seen lately - The White Hats
A few other movies we mentioned:
The Revenant
The Pianist
Free State of Jones
12 Years a Slave
Manchester by the Sea
Silver Linings Playbook
Hidden Figures
La La Land
The Jungle Book
The Princess Bride
Harry Potter 
Kelsey is obsessed with keeping good quality sunscreen on hand (literally) at all times and Erica is loving antique shopping for the new house.
Neighborhood News....
This drone crashed into Erica's pool the other day. A bit unsettling, yes?
And believe it or not, we have another tortoise story for you.

Laundry & Sudsy Sunday

Buckle your seatbelts, dear listeners, for this riveting topic! We're talking all about how clothes are getting clean in our neighborhood. Everyone does laundry, so everyone can relate. 


We sipped on this cocktail inspired by Jenna Kutcher's month-long trip to Hawaii and what Erica had in her kitchen:

No Kids in Maui

  • 3 oz. pineapple juice
  • 3 oz. coconut water
  • 1.5 oz. vodka
  • tonic to top it off

We're chatting all about our current laundry situations like who does it, how often, and how we feel about it. We also cover how we sort it all and keep it organized and what kind of equipment we're using these days as well as how we're folding, putting it away, and who else gets involved in the fun. Erica shares a funny story about a laundry chute and we share some great laundry tips from listeners.

Laundry stuff we mentioned:

In neighborhood news, Erica has a full circle meeting with a sweet listener. In current obsessions, Erica is rocking some performance undies (which incite quite the debate) and Kelsey loves her sleeping children and related curly hair. 

Snacks & Hats on a Monkey

Hint of Spring
makes 2 cocktails
3 oz gin
1/2 oz St. Germain
1/4 oz Campari
Dry vanilla soda
Fill a shaker with ice and pour in gin, St. Germain and Campari. Shake until frosty. Pour into two cups with ice. Top each with vanilla soda.
We're chatting all about our snacking habits, our favorite go-to healthy and indulgent snacks, our kids' snacking. We mention a injury balls (AKA energy balls) which are a favorite snack of Kelsey's kids. It gets yummy, so don't listen hungry!
In current obsessions, Erica has a new lipstick regimen:
Kelsey is obsessed with microwaving her sponges to kill bacteria. 
In neighborhood news, we share a listener email about our neighborhood runaway tortoise epidemic.